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Relationships with others
821
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Why a
re relationships with others important?
821
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Why are so many
relationships
unhappy?
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The "games" we play with others
822
Put downs of others
822
Put downs of one's self
825
Ego
-
boosting
826
Summary and h
ow to stop game
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playing
828
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Other self
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deceptions: excuses and self
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handicapping
830
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People cause our problems and provide relief
833
Sources of help: Friends, family, self
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help groups, therapists
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Relationships within the Family
834
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The family
834
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Chi
ld
-
care
--
useful references (and a little history)
835
o
Pr
oblems within the family (Satir
)
839
o
Increased
child
-
care
role for fathers
841
o
How psychological problems begin (parent blaming?)
843
o
The causes and results of alcoholism and abuse
845
Alcoholism, neglect, and abuse
845
Do abused kids become abusing parents?
846
Child sexual a
buse, incest
846
Websites about
sexual
abuse
847
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E
ffects of
traumatic early experiences and
poor parenting
852
Table 9.2: Possible
outcomes
of harmful experiences
846
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Common interpersonal problems and needed skills
860
o
Fear of approaching someone
860
o
Handling the first few minutes
861
o
Becoming a good con
versationalist
861
o
People addicts and people haters
864
o
Self
-
disclosure and self
-
acceptance
865
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Misunderstandings
--
checking out your hunches
866
o
Empathy responding
867
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Sustaining long-term relationships
868
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Why can't
we
communicat
e
?
869
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Being
taken for grante
d
869
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Resolving conflicts
870
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Control of and by others
871
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